Etymology Lesson: apology
Recently I made a few mistakes and hurt someone dear to me, so I needed to make an apology, and it got me thinking about the origins of the word. Let’s break it down a bit.
There are two PIE roots, ap- and apo- which both mean, “reach, extend, put hence, put off, put away.” You’ll recognize these roots from words like apostate, apotheosis, apogee, apocalypse etc., all of which have a sense of something set apart or distant that has reached its finality.
Next is the PIE root leg- 1, (there are two leg roots) which is interesting because it means, “to gather, consider, and choose” but in the distinct context of there being an intent to pick things out, in this case, words, from that collection of information. So from leg – 1, we get the Greek word, logos, which means, “word, speech, discourse” and also “reasoning.” So an extended definition of the word means “to gather, consider, choose, reason, and then speak about in discourse.”
So when you combine apo and logos together, you get an extended definition that means “an extension to finality of the gathering, consideration, choosing, and reasoning of a personal account, which will be spoken about in discourse.” The word itself is an invitation to really consider what has occurred, gather what information you can about it, and then figure out the best way to reach forward for some discourse to some finality on the topic.
Can’t think of a better way to put it really. Apologizing isn’t easy, and, not that I’m an expert on it, but a lot of people are REALLY bad at it. Right there in the word though are instructions for how to make a good apology. If you haven’t carefully considered what has occurred and aren’t able to even articulate what you did wrong, how can you ever really offer an apology?
On a lighter note, I will always take any excuse to post this video, because even though Justin Bieber is kind of a tool, Parris Goebel and ReQuest Dance Crew are awesome and I’m not sorry about it:



